love your life as how it is

There're a few things to be thought of if you wish to live a happy life instead of a grumpy,ignorance one. Upon all,the most important thing would be: (quoting from Rayner) "Why is everyone keep gossiping about me?" There's a saying: if one person gossip about you,it might not be your fault;BUT,if everyone is talking behind your back,you might really need to think deeply for the reason. People won't crap stuff that does not exist and put it onto you for fun. If many of them start to talk about you behind your back,you should know that SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT ABOUT YOU! Yes, Y-O-U! Not that they're mean or they just love to gossip but most probably,you're the one who has had problem that could be the topic for people to gossip around.

No one is perfect in this world. So,never think that you're right in everything you do. Never think that you're such fantabulous in everything you do. Never let your ego step out too much. Humble is what teachers always taught us to be during school days. What is it to be ashamed of to be acknowledge that you're wrong in some way? You should just hide yourself from the world and live your happy life, thinking that those who appreciate you are true friends and those who are backstabbing you are annoying devils. Stay naive and childish as you like. And many will open wide their eyes to see how deep you'll fall when you step out of the education-receiving compound.

Not only that,why don't you learn to see the world through the positive lense and stay optimistic? Why must you blame the pressure you have had? Why must you blame the world or God for having bad luck? Why must you blame others for what they have and what you do not have? Why must you blame others when things happen? Come on~ You're not forever a child. Why can't you deal things like an adult does? Why can't you learn to see from other people's perspective and learn the way they think? It might not be easy,but once you learn so,you'd definitely live a happier life.

Lastly,learn to accept other people's advices and suggestion. Don't ever think that you have had the greatest idea of all on everything, either academically or about fashion and stuff. You might not appear as what you thought you are. There're millions of people having higher IQ than you are, not to say EQ. So, what is it to be proud of academically when exams are just memorising facts and you act like an idiot in daily livings? You might think that you dress really well or having such nice hairstyle,but,you never know that people are laughing off their heads at your back for your funny ideas on yourself. Why don't you just open your ears and listen? Try to absorb the advices, apply 'em on you and see if the changes are good. No harm to try,right?

Stop complaining about people mistreating you. Stop complaining about you're living such miserable life. Just stop complaining. Life is to live and enjoy,not to waste your time telling yourself how bad your life is and keep complaining about it over and over again.

~Love Life~